Three Little Jewells

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5/28/2009- Summer School

Summer School Day

We are taking the summer “off” from school.  We finished the year in April and intend to take May, June, July and August off and start back in September.   I like starting the year in September, after Labor Day.

Even though we are taking the summer off from school doesn’t mean there isn’t learning going on.   We still go up to the school room most mornings and spend about an hour and a half up there.   We’re continuing with Mary’s reading lessons- although not every day.  My goal is to complete a lesson or two a week.

We’re doing a lot of read alouds daily.   Continuing to study the Bible (of course!).    For Math the kids have been playing with two different sequencing games we have, pattern blocks, counting and sorting bears, etc.

I’ve recently been reading A Charlotte Mason Companion by Karen Andreola and am LOVING it!   Although I am Classically-minded, I do think there is much to learn from Charlotte Mason and have been incorporating some of her principles.   (The curriculum I chose for next year is a cross between Classical and Charlotte Mason- Tapestry of Grace) I had an epiphany the other day when I was reading the chapter entitled “Inconsistent Kitty”- my kids do flit from activity to activity without spending enough time at any one activity to really develop the rich play that I would like to see.   They are not practicing the art of attention- of applying all your mental faculties to really pay attention to the task at hand and to complete it thoroughly.    I decided to try something that I read in the book- requiring them to play with a toy/do a task for a certain amount of time.  In the past, if Mary got out the puzzles and started working on one and then said- “Mommy, I’m done with puzzles.” I would just say “ok, put them away and choose something else.”

On Thursday, instead of allowing the usual flitting from activity to activity I instructed Mary and Nathan to each choose something to play with and then required that they play with that item for 15 minutes.  We did three rotations of this.   Mary chose puzzles, tried the “after 2 minutes I want to do something else thing” and then, once she realized that she really DID have to play with this one thing for the specified amount of time, went back to working on her puzzles.   She became so engrossed that she worked 10-12 puzzles over the course of an hour!   She was really applying herself and really concentrating- it was nice to see.   Nathan chose the counting and sorting bears for his first session and then chose books for the last two sessions.   He has really become much more interested in books lately and it is nice to see him all cozed up on the beanbags, totally immersed in a book or two.

Mary spent an hour doing puzzles.  (Logic)

Nathan, tucked up in the reading corner, with a stack of books.

We looked at this Art book and discussed paintings and artists.

Mary finished this map of North America, with a little help.  (Geography)

Just so you know, he is NOT TIRED.  :)

This corner of the schoolroom, as you walk into the door immediately to your left, has previously been unfinished.  We had a six foot folding table piled high with my scrapbooking stuff and Kip’s project (converting his records to CD format).    We finally found a new home for that stuff and straightened this corner out.   The keyboard is on my sewing machine table (the sewing machine folds down into the table!).  The bookshelf holds all our puzzles.   And then Mom’s rocking chair.   The only think left to do is hang up our Timeline Poster.   I need to take new pictures of the schoolroom now that it’s DONE.

A Gift From My Dad

My Dad brought me a gift when he was here visiting last week. It’s probably the best gift he’s ever given me.

He brought me my Mother’s rocking chair.    How wonderful to be able to sit and rock my children in the same rocking chair that Mom rocked my and my siblings in.   I’m so, so thrilled.  I’ll treasure this for many years and I just love the thought of passing it down to Mary and Savannah.

Difficult

“That Difficult Age”

Man-oh-man, Sweet Savvy is at that difficult age! I always say that 12 months – 24 months is SUCH a difficult age and boy is she reminding me of that lately.

Of course, Kip and I aren’t helping things.   We’ve been so besotted with this baby that we’re like two blathering fools.   She’s over in the corner having a fit and the two of us are sitting there like idiots going “oh, the baby is so beautiful even when she’s mad” and “oh, it’s just so precious”.   I looked at Kip the other day and said “What in the world are we doing???   We KNOW better!”

Savannah, 21 months old,   Thursday, 5/28/09   (I often wear my sunglasses pushed up on my head like this- I love that she found these kid sunglasses and is copying me.   Such a cute baby.)

It’s time to crack down on the fit throwing, etc.   One thing that I’ve never totally successfully trained for at this young age is sitting- I KNOW she can do it, but somehow I’ve failed in this area.

Anyhow, Kip and I???  We’ve got work to do.

Here’s a couple posts that have been encouraging to me lately.

Like Mother, Like Daughter has a really excellent post up entitled “Dear Aristotle, he’s so clever” about obedience.

Here’s the goal (it’s two-fold): To enjoy a bit of peace at home, and to be able to tell God that you took seriously the obligation to train your child to be virtuous — which, as dear Aristotle reminds us, is the ability to do the right thing for its own sake.

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Foolish parents constantly react to (or ignore) their children’s misbehavior, instead of taking the time to instill good behavior.

They constantly seek affirmation from their children, and so are either afraid of administering the punishment necessary, or retreat after doing so out of surprise that their children show them attitude.

Attitude is what I define as a reaction that you can safely ignore or call out (“Young lady, stop that whining!”), but never take seriously — never let affect your own will.

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Generation Cedar has a good blog post up entitled “Early Child Training“.   Here’s an excerpt…

My youngest daughter (18 months old) has entered “the moment of truth”.  It is crucial, IMO, that child training starts very early–even as babies we begin using certain words to get them familiar with our expectations, but between the ages of about 1-3, training is intense…they are

testing the waters

checking the boundaries

making sure the perimeters are in place–’cause it’s going to be a scary world if they’re not.

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Childwise Chat has been doing an excellent series on obedience in children.   Well worth the time to read and very encouraging.

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Books and Bairns has a post up that I regard as simply PERFECT-  Take a few moments and read this:

I AM NOT THE MOTHER I WANTED TO BE

Where was I?

Where have I been for the last week?

Drowning in company!

My Mother came Thursday night and spent the night so that Kip and I could leave early Friday morning to attend the state wide homeschool conference.   We had a wonderful day- we attended four sessions, visited the bookfair numerous times, ran into some friends, and had dinner- just the two of us!- at O’Charleys.   We got home in time to tuck the chicks into bed Friday night.

Then on Saturday my Dad arrived for a visit and stayed until Tuesday.  He brought me a wondeful surprise- but that’s another post.  ;)

Here are a few random pictures from the last week or so:

(This is a bit older but I haven’t posted it yet so I’m going to include it here)

Saturday, 5/16  Kip took the big kids to a Greensboro Grasshoppers game with Paw Paw and Mimi.   I stayed home with Savvy and had some nice one-on-one time with her- it was wonderful to have a quiet evening to really focus on her.

Mary’s block castle- she was very proud of it.

Sunday, 5/24- Mary and I made Lemon Pies for Pap Pap (my Dad).   Mary made the two little ones herself!

Mary washed all the dishes from making the pies all by herself- she’s getting to be such a big girl!

Mary, Nathan and Savvy all piled in on Pap Pap while he is (sort of) napping.

Savannah just loves this cat book.

My sister just bought a house in Forest Oaks- she moved in last weekend!  In the process of moving they cleaned out a lot of Alec’s toys- he’s almost 11yo now so is growing out of toys.   They passed on tons and tons of Imaginext stuff to Mary and Nathan.   I let them haul it all out, spread out over the entire dining room and have a go at it.   They played for HOURS.

Cutting Garden

My Birthday/Mother’s Day Present

from Kip was this “cutting garden”. Probably one of the best presents he’s ever given me!   A “cutting garden” is a garden of plants, usually flowers, that are used for cutting and putting in vases and such.   We had a cutting garden at our old house and I’ve really missed always having fresh flowers in the house.

One problem at this house is that it has so many large trees (which we love!) but that also = lots and lots of shade.  There are very few spots that get enough sun for any type of garden.   This corner of the backyard does get enough sun and was currently being unused.

BEFORE

THE NEW GARDEN!!!

Kip planted lots of my favorite flowers- Dahlias, Gerber Daisies, Zinnias, Geraniums, Chrysanthemums.    Do you see the plain patch of dirt in the back?    That is lots and lots of Zinnias planted by seed.   Also planted by seed- tons of Wildflowers all throughout the garden!   I can’t wait to see this in bloom around July or so!   We have Trailing Vinca growing in the natural area of our frontyard and Rosebushes growing in the side yard- between the cutting flowers, the roses and the vinca, I’m anticipating some beautiful flower arrangements!

Here are some close ups of some of the flowers in the picture above.    Aren’t these gorgeous?

Standing at the corner of the cutting garden, looking into the backyard.  You can see how shaded the backyard is and how little sun it gets.  I love it in the summer- it’s wonderful to be able to send the children out to play and not worry about sunscreen but it does make it hard to grow any flowers back there.

Homeschool Planning

Planning our Weekly Work

I spend tons of time planning and researching when I am purchasing my new curriculum for the upcoming year.   Once everything has arrived, I make a list of all that I want to cover for the year.

(ex. CLE Bible 102, Math U See Primer, Finish 100 EZ Lessons and complete CLE Language Arts Year 1, CLE Science First Grade, TOG Year 1, HWOT Second Grade, etc.)

I make a list of what I want to cover daily and weekly. So- daily- bible, language arts, math, history, handwriting
weekly- science (3 x a week), art (1 x a week), Geography (2x a week), etc.

That’s my planning.

Every school day we try to cover the daily items and one or two of the weekly items. I have a plan book with blank boxes. Each 2 page layout covers 5 days. Every day I write down what we’ve accomplished, 1-2 subjects per box. As we approach the end of the week I just look back and make sure that we did, in fact, cover science 3 times or did art once. If not, we pick up the slack on the last day or two of the “week”.

(and I use the term “week” loosely- it’s any set of 5 days but not necessarily Monday-Friday or even all in the same week. It’s just 5 school days in a row)

Keeping House

Keeping the House Clean

Don’t you love it when you feel like you’ve really hit your stride?  When you’ve finally found something that’s really working for you?  I feel like I’m there right now when it comes to keeping up with the house.   And I’m so glad because as much as I love having company and I really want to be hospitable, I was struggling last winter.   We had SO much company January through March, scheduled and a lot of drop-in company and I was really having a difficult time enjoying this because I felt so much pressure to keep the house tidy.  We don’t have a playroom downstairs so when the kids have just trashed the living room it makes it difficult to relax and have a peaceful visit with whatever company is there visiting.

BUT- I’ve discovered a secret to keeping the house in good order, most of the day, even though we are home all day.

SWITCHING ROOMS!

We spend a certain amount of time in one room.   We clean it up completely and then move to another room.  We clean that room up before we leave it.    Here’s how it looks in our home:

7:30am-9:00am Free play time in the living room for the kids.   During this time I am checking email, starting laundry, checking the menu to see if I need to get anything going for dinner that night, cleaning up the breakfast dishes, wiping down the counters and tables and sweeping if necessary.

At 9:00am-ish I go into the living room and help/direct the children in getting the room completely picked up- when we leave the room it should look “company ready”.

So by 9:15 or so, the entire downstairs is picked up and orderly.

9:00/9:15ish (whenever we finish the clean up) we all head upstairs. Kids get dressed and make beds.  I dress Savannah, straighten her room and the kids bathroom if necessary and lay her down for a short 30-45 minute morning nap.   Meanwhile, the kids and I go into the school room.  We do our daily read alouds, Mary’s reading lesson, math manipulatives or sequencing and just play.   Around 10:15ish, we start picking up the school room.

10:30ish- The entire upstairs is now clean and straightened and the kids head outside to play until lunch.    After lunch we clean up and the kids all go down for afternoon naps or quiet time.  (Mary rarely naps anymore but plays quietly in her room)

Everyone is up at 4:00pm- big kids usually go back out to play for another hour or hour and  a half.   Sometimes they play until Kip comes  home and sometimes I’ll let them watch a video around 5pm or 5:30pm.

All times are approximate- the schedule is there to serve me, not the other way around.  I deviate from the schedule whenever I deem it necessary.   We’re not living by the clock- it’s more of a relaxed, general keeping an eye on what time it is and moving on to a new room or activity around that time.

You can see above, that by 9am the entire downstairs is picked up and they don’t really come back into the living room until right before dinner time.   The house is staying pretty tidy throughout the day- not museum-perfect but neat enough that I feel comfortable have neighbors drop in, etc.

Busy Boy

Antics

Nathan, 4 years old.   Tuesday, 5/12/09

I caught him scaling the bookshelf in order to fish down his cowboy hat.

Playing doctor with lots of silliness.

Two More “Firsts”…

Savvy’s First Peanut Butter and Jelly Sandwich

5/12/09- one day shy of 21 months old.


5/16/09- Saturday-   I took Savvy with me to the grocery store and it was the FIRST time she walked in somewhere!  Before we’ve always had to carry her in and out of stores.   But today, I was able to put her down and she walked into the grocery store.   Of course, it took us ten minutes to cross the parking lot but still… I was in no hurry and she was able to do it so I let her walk.   :)     She’ll be running in no time!

Sleepover, 5/9/09

Sleepover… with siblings.

We let Mary and Nathan have a “sleepover” in Nathan’s room on Saturday night.   They were up until well past 11pm chattering away.

Around 11:45pm I peeped in on them and they were finally passed out.

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